
AJ touched so many lives in her 19 years. (Image: Kathryn Reed)
When Keira Troxell came to the house Feb. 16 I could not have asked for a more compassionate veterinarian. None of us had met before. I had continued to take AJ to her docs in South Lake Tahoe even after moving to Chico.
Troxell didn’t know AJ’s story, how she came into my life (thank you Joy), or anything about our adventures. She didn’t know AJ meant the world to me. She didn’t know how AJ was my best friend. She didn’t know how much I loved that dog, though I think she got a glimpse of it.
One thing I really liked about our conversation before the house call was the doc said she would evaluate AJ to determine if the service I requested was warranted. I really liked that and told her so. She said not everyone was so understanding. I would not want a vet who would end an animal’s life for the people’s benefit.
Compassion oozed from Troxell. I will always be grateful to her for making such a horrible day tolerable, at least while she was there.
AJ used to lay in her bed behind me while I worked in the office. Now her ashes are on the desk.
It was that same bed, that same office where she stared into my eyes and said thank you. I hope through my tears she could see that I was thanking her as well. She was such a huge part of my life these past 9½ years. It still amazes me she made it to age 19.
It wasn’t just Troxell who gave AJ great care. All of the doctors at Alpine Animal Hospital in South Lake Tahoe are to be commended. This is where Joy took AJ and it’s where I continued to take her.
Dr. Laura Doering scheduled an appointment for us, not just AJ, shortly after Joy died. It was for me to ask her whatever I wanted and for her to share what she knew about this crazy part yellow Lab, part greyhound who knows what else mix of a dog. We talked for more than an hour. When does that happen—that a doctor of any kind spends that much time with you and there is nothing wrong with the patient? I wonder if Joy arranged this. I can see her doing it.
The other key docs in her life were Kevin Willitts and Lindsay Sjolin. The vet techs and nurses, as well as front office staff, were always kind and helpful.
AJ was at Alpine regularly for mani-pedis, aka nail trims. She saw the docs for a variety of reasons—bad teeth, slicing open her side on a hike, being bitten by a dog (besides the one in Mexico), E. coli (shouldn’t drink stagnant water), clogged nostrils (shouldn’t inhale dirt in a log), urinary tract infections, and the ongoing kidney disease.
I could not have asked for a better team of care-givers. I wrote them a note after AJ crossed the rainbow bridge thanking them for everything. Dr. Sjolin called, which just made me even more appreciative of their care. We had a nice chat through my tears.
The tears still flow. AJ was so special, but so were all the medical people who helped give her such a long life.
Thank you for this. I didn’t know all the caring medical folks who took care of her. She was one blessed creature for sure and so we’re all of us. God speed AJ. PLEASE continue to watch out for all of us and don’t forget to vote!
How beautiful. I could kiss each one who assisted you and AJ. And you too.
Reading through tears as I’ve been there, too – sending you love.
Oh, Kae, my heart aches for you, I have felt your pain losing our best friends. Following your stories on AJ, I really believed this was wonder dog and immortal, to be active almost to the end. AJ lives on in your tales and articles, and will be part of you from now on.
Kae, I’m so sorry to learn you have lost your best friend. I’ve lost many dogs in my lifetime….such a sad experience. Claire, my cat, is my best friend here at home and I know the time will come……. I’m glad you returned to Tahoe so that you and AJ could have the care and understanding that you both deserved.
Hoping you find another loyal and worthy replacement for AJ.
Sorry for your loss but so happy to hear about the extraordinary life you two shared over the years
Kae – I just now read your blog – I am so very sorry AJ is gone – I know how difficult this is for you – how much she was a part of your life.
You two were partners – together in life. You have great memories of your lives together as well as photos.
Our Bella may be coming to that time also…….so sad to lose our loyal buddies.
Joyce